My wife said she wants a divorce, and I’m completely heartbroken and lost. She is truly the love of my life and I am desperate to save the relationship. I fear that there isn’t time left for counseling, is there any online program that really works?
thanks,
-desperate in denver
desperate in denver,
My wife Kim and I are newly married and experienced a similar situation. I know how desperate you may feel… do panic attacks sound familiar? Luckily I was able to find a program that actually works at http://www.savetherelationshipnow.com and things have never been better. While i hesitate to call their system a ‘magic formula’, it sure seemed to work that way. I really hope this works for you because I know how hard life can be with a problem this size hanging over your head. You’ll be in my thoughts.

You haven’t really provided details as of why she wants a divorce. Have you searched online for any marriage counseling? I think we need more details!
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Why does she want a divorce? Is there any one thing, or is it a lot of little things?
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Have a great sex with her.
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why does she want a divorce? is she sure she wants it?
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I’m really sorry. Praying for u and your wife. This book is at the christian book store. Family christian book store, lifeway..ect..It’s called the "Love Dare" by the movie Fireproof. Everyday you do what the chapter says to do, and the and then keep doing it and it should help you out so much. The first day is to not say anything Negative at all to your spouse or to anyone. Hope this helps.
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Why does she want a divorce?
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Think back to what you had in the beginning that made it work that you’ve lost now.
It could be nights out, alone time.
Try and rekindle what made you, you.
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does she know how you feel? If not you might start there.. i told my husband i wanted a divorce and he just basically said ok.. he loves me but whatever makes me happy.. i have NO idea if he really does love me and would rather stay with me or if he really dosnt love me and that is why he can just say OK.. if he told me yes i love you more than anything lets work i this i think i would have tried.. but he didnt……
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If none of the suggestions work, ask your wife if she would consider a year long seperation. That would give her time to think about it and be sure she’s making the best decision. During that period you two could see if there is anyway to save your marraige. Too many people rush into getting divorces and then look back and realize they may have been able to work it out. Sometimes a little space between you can remind you of what first attracted you to each other. Good luck!
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A lot more info would have helped but if she wants a divorce then there is no way out, just let her go, if you truly love her then you would be happy if she is happy, if she is hapy away from you, then let her go..sorry.
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Go out and rent the movie fireproof maybe it will help you but you might want to keep it to yourself if you really are going to try it. My prayers are with you and your wife.
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I’m willing to bet that in the past she has told you what she needs from you??? Better think! good luck to you
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desperate in denver,
My wife Kim and I are newly married and experienced a similar situation. I know how desperate you may feel… do panic attacks sound familiar? Luckily I was able to find a program that actually works at http://www.savetherelationshipnow.com
Honey you can’t make something work that is not going to work. Leave it alone and find someone else. If she is that sure that she doesn’t want to be with you than chances are that she already found someone else. Good Luck to you.
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Relationship is very complicated to maintain. No one know that when the differences occurs between sweet couple and things go on worse! Many people stay in a relationship because it is convenient or remain in a marriage because of the children. But that is not enough.
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Commitment
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Pinpoint the problem
2) You must pinpoint the problem or problems in a relationship. One of the biggest problems in how to save a relationship is that people believe the symptoms of the problem are the problem itself.
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