Healing a Broken Heart

How can you have a relationship with no communication?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:56:27 +0000

We’ve been together 5 years, but lately he never wants to talk about our problems. He just kind of pushes it off, and doesn’t want to hear about my feelings. Or if I do get to express my concerns, he gets really defensive.

Not saying this is true for you, but when this happened to me he was cheating. Please check everything out. I did not want to see it.

My wife wants a divorce, how can I save the relationship?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:56:15 +0000

My wife said she wants a divorce, and I’m completely heartbroken and lost. She is truly the love of my life and I am desperate to save the relationship. I fear that there isn’t time left for counseling, is there any online program that really works?
thanks,
-desperate in denver

desperate in denver,
My wife Kim and I are newly married and experienced a similar situation. I know how desperate you may feel… do panic attacks sound familiar? Luckily I was able to find a program that actually works at http://www.savetherelationshipnow.com and things have never been better. While i hesitate to call their system a ‘magic formula’, it sure seemed to work that way. I really hope this works for you because I know how hard life can be with a problem this size hanging over your head. You’ll be in my thoughts.

Do you think that gossip causes a lot of problems in relationships?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:56:07 +0000

and are you a gossip?????

would you define gossip as keeping secrets from others, or keeping secrets from a select certain group of people or one person?

And tell me: whats your signs??

Gossip does cause a lot of problems in relationships. I’m not one, I learned my lesson in elementary school. I would define gossip as spreading any information that you hear about someone without any fact at all, or even if it is true, telling everyone you see just because there is nothing else to talk about.

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Hard Break Up Advice?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:56:00 +0000

Me and now my ex have broken up 1 month and 32 days ago. We have been together for over 5 years and she told me that she liked being alone, time to read, and have time to herself. She told me that she loved me for what I have done for her, and all this other stuff, but what really stood out was "maybe this isn’t enough" I don’t know if she said in the heat of the moment or if she really meant it. She has recently been talking to me, but it seems as if it is only when she is in need of something. I know she is over it cause my cousin saw her at the movie theater with some guy.

What I need is advice on how people over come hard break ups. I know it sounds really dumb and pathetic, but she was all I knew and what I put my focus on. I feel like I don’t want to be with her if somehow she asks to be together again because I don’t want to feel like this. Yet, I still care for her and shes is always in my thoughts. I recently moved to the other side of the country, but she knew I was going to be back very soon. Should I try to get her back, and if so how should I go about that? Thank you and I really appreciate the advice. This is really hard for me and I want to get over this and be back to normal.

I have recently gone through a similar break up. I suddenly had lots of time on my hands and so I did some research on how to get over her. This is the stuff I found to be most useful.

1) Do NOT call her. Break off contact. Maybe you can be friends later, but not right now and not in the near future.
2) Seriously. Don’t call. If she calls, tell her you need space and then don’t answer.
3) Realize that you can’t really get back together unless you are over her. Otherwise you will always carry this hurt with you and it will just end badly for both of you.
4) Also realize that you probably should not get back together. You broke up for a reason. Missing her is not enough of a reason to get back together.
5) Realize that she is not coming back. This one was the hardest for me. When we broke up I was constantly checking my phone and my e-mail, hoping to hear her say she had made a mistake and wanted me back.

Now for the fun stuff:
6) Go OUTSIDE and EXERCISE! This is not optional. Exercise is proven to alleviate stress and sadness. Plus, getting (back) into shape is a great self-esteem booster.
7) Spend time with your friends and family. Chances are, if you were really committed to this person, you probably ignored your friends. Time to reconnect or make new ones.
Talk about your feelings, again with friends and family. Don’t bottle your feelings up, but be careful to not let it dominate your conversations. Friends are there to listen, but they’re also there for fun!
9) Realize that it’s okay to be sad when sad things happen. Accept that you are going to feel pain, but that this pain will not last forever, and it doesn’t have to control your life.
10) Again, realize that this pain is temporary. One day, you will wake up and notice that you’re okay. That you haven’t thought about her lately and that there is more to life than her.
11) Don’t set a date for this to happen. You will likely be setting yourself up for disappointment. It will take as long as it takes, but if you’re proactive about it, not as long as you’d think. It will likely sneak up on you.
12) Be good to yourself. Now is the time to focus on you. Think about all the things you are able to do now that she is out of your life. Think about how wonderful your next relationship will be, now that you’ve had the experience from this one.

Lastly, the one thing that helped me through some hard times was to remind myself that it gets better. Today was hard, but tomorrow will be a little easier.

How do you heal your broken heart?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:55:40 +0000

What are some things you do personally to heal a broken heart?

Thats a good question.

Dating Tips : How to Attract a Crush

admin — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:16:45 +0000

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Salvaging Your Relationship After An Affair – Dr. Sheri Meyers

admin — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:16:42 +0000

You can get through this! Really! Relationship therapist, Dr.Sheri Meyers discusses what it takes to save and rebuild your relationship following an affair. For more information, please visit Dr. Sheri @ www.straightfromtheheart.com

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Psycho Girlfriend: Ep 3

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admin — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:16:30 +0000

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