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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVI

As much as it hurts, yes, yes she can not be friends with you anymore and no, she’s not nuts. I understand where she’s coming from, actually. I was in a nearly identical situation. Pushing her to get back together with you for THREE WEEKS is far, far too much. If she didn’t want to get back together the first week, why would it change in the third? All you did was push her away. When you wanted to be friends, you might have been ready and she might not have been. You have to let her come to terms herself. Especially if she really thought all those things, she probably wanted to allow herself some time and distance to get over those things so she wouldn’t have to break it to you and be rude like that. But by constantly badgering her you didn’t give her that space and time, and what she did is final and no, don’t expect to be friends with her. I’m sorry.

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Going threw a break-up for the second time with the same person, for the same reasons. Of course Im the one crying and sad about it while he is out living it up. Whats the best advice you have received in dealing with the gut turning and broken hearted feeling? We’ve been on and off 3 yrs both in our mid 20’s, and were living together. It boils down to him wanting to bang whores and lying to me non stop. I need some advice or words of encourgmant to get me threw the day at the office. Thanks to anyone who answers. You guys are awesome.

this means he is not ready for the kind of relationship you want and this is the way you find out early and you are still young and you can go out and have fun you have plenty of time to find Mr.Right take time to find yourself be safe and God Bless

Breaking up is hard to do. No one ever wants to do it, but if you’re ending a relationship there are steps you can follow that will make it as painless as possible. Host Bridget McManus gets incredible tips from PeopleJam member Sheamus in his blog post “How To Break Up: Advice for Saving a Healthy Relationship.” If you’ve ever been through a breakup or are thinking about ending a relationship with someone, then check out this episode!
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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVICE

My concern is that for a 3 1/2 month relationship, you seem awfully invested with someone who does not want to see you anymore. I’ve also had breakups where the guy just doesn’t want to let go. I can tell you, this is really scary for a woman. Perhaps it would be best for you to stop contacting her altogether. Find a hobby, (I don’t mean that in a sarcastic way- I mean literally pour yourself into something new that is NOT a relationship.) You’re 29 years old, not 16. I’m shocked at your perspective here. She’s right, you can’t force it, surely you know that? By trying to force it, you look controlling (even if you are not) and that is exactly how abusers start!! So you’re ringing all of her alarm bells with your reaction here. Abusers consume every moment’s attention. If you work TOO hard, try to prove yourself TOO much, and then try to force her to stay with you when she’s told you that’s not what she wants, then you are literally following in the abuser’s footsteps whether you mean to or not. It’s all about power and control. She NEEDS to have power and control right now. Let go… let her have it. She may surprise you and come back. By the way, a woman who has allowed herself to remain in an abusive relationship is NOT "way outta" anyone’s league. I doubt that’s really where she’s coming from. She likely has serious self esteem issues, and I’m wondering if you do, too? People really need to have good self esteem to support a healthy and lasting relationship.
Let go. Work on yourself. There’s a reason you became so invested in such a short term relationship. There’s a reason you are trying to force this relationship against her wishes. Investigate that. You may eventually be in a better place to have a relationship with her- or if that’s not possible, then the next woman will be so lucky to get you! And until you see that- until you realize that you have so much to offer the RIGHT WOMAN, and understand that it may just not be her- you’re going to be doing this same macabre dance over and over and over again. Maybe not with her, but this pattern will repeat itself until you deal with what’s making YOU tick.
Good luck, I’m so sorry for your pain. I hope you have some great, supportive friends to help you through this.

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Myself and partner broke up about 3 weeks ago. He moved out of my house. I was pretty upset the first week. We had been doing a fair bit of argueing during the lead up to the break up.
This is his 3rd week being gone and I haven’t seen him around. I was a bit upset at the weekend and the mornings seemed to be pretty hard but now it seems to be getting easier. Is this a normal feeling or is there worse to come. I cry every so often but I have been keeping a diary of my feelings and the devastation seems to be passing. We were together for 4 years.
My question is, is this normal or am I avoiding this whole thing. I feel strange!!!

Some advice would be great

I think its normal, people grieve in different ways for the loss of things. It sounds like the reality of it hasn’t hit you just yet, maybe because he has only been gone three weeks and you keep expecting for him to just walk back into your life. Trust me don’t wait for him to come back because if you want a man to do something, most of the time they disappoint you. Just get on with your life and don’t dwell on the past four years. It was meant to be this way if hes walked out. I hoped this helped.

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Break up advice??
my gf just recently broken up with me, she just want to make sure of her feelings for me… if i was the one for her? she said she wanted a time or freedom for herself to realize of what she really wants for our relationship.. and now its been a month that i didnt contact her.. and i feel slightly good.. so what can you advice for me if she comes back? we’d been 5 years and its not easy of letting go..on the other side being single again is another adventure and fun.. so what can you say for me.. thanks!!!

If you are feeling fine right now, I think you should let her go. After all, if you love someone, let it go, if it comes back, it’s yours I truly stand by this quote and i think you should too. 5 years is quite a long time, aren’t you curious to find out if that ONE girl is still waiting for you? Don’t worry, if it’s meant to be between the both of you, then it’ll work out in the end.